About Apologizing
All of us make some mistakes. Howsoever intelligent we might be, or wealthy, or experienced, we all make some mistakes. Sometimes we realize, sometimes we don’t. But many of us get some things wrong because we’re human. Only God doesn’t ever make any mistake. How can we help ourselves?
A few of our mistakes hurt our interest. They don’t hurt anyone else. But sometimes, we do few things knowingly or unknowingly that hurt others. That is the the perfect time to apologize. So why do many of us apologize immediately, and why do most of us avoid it? So why do many of us say sorry even with an insignificant hurt, while many wait for ages to sorry after committing gigantic blunders? That is a mystery. Everthing depends upon our thinking, our upbringing, our humility, our sense of right and wrong, and our opinion of others feelings and so on. But can we become smaller by saying sorry? So are we confessing a blunder by saying sorry? So are we hurting our ego by saying sorry? Possibly not.
We rather become better by saying sorry. When we finally say sorry, we’re feeling good, the other party feels good. By saying sorry, we are not creating a mistake of confessing a blunder and putting ourselves to risk of ridicule, but saying that- look here, I made this mistake, and I am very sorry for that. Please forgive me and allow us to be friends again. An apology makes us a much better person by cleansing us of our guilt. Let us all say sorry the minute we understand that by any act of ours, we have hurt someone even if the hurt is insignificant. When the mistake is greater, our apology should match it to create matters back to normal.
Let’s apologize at all the times, we make a mistake and make someone happy again and get happiness in turn.
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